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Does your wife torture you? Contact Man Cell By: Sanjeev Verma
Has your better half become the bitter half of your life? Are you a tortured husband, falsely booked into a dowry case or under domestic violence act and there is no one to pay heed to your side of the story?
In the recent years, such incidents have taken a steep rise in numbers, in every social society all over India, where Himachal Pradesh is not an exception. Many cases have been reported in different parts of Himachal also, where women have misused the dowry law, which is actually meant for their protection. But it’s an irony that the law takes into cognizance, prima facie, violence against women only, as they have got the tag of being the weaker section of the society. But what about men?
Man Cell or Patni Atyaachar Virodhi Morcha (PAVM) is an organisation working for the cause of harassed husbands. Man Cell, which was established in 1982 by R P Chugh, a Supreme Court advocate and president of Man Cell, has branches at many places all over the country. He himself has been a victim of women since his childhood and campaigns against the anti dowry legislations, specially section 498-A of IPC and the Domestic Violence Act, as he feels that these laws are biased and violate basic human right of equality before law. Man Cell believes that there is no use of making new laws as existing laws are sufficient. He feels, there is a need to amend such existing laws as they only speak of the harassment of women and not of men.
According to Chugh, Man Cell receives an average of ten calls on daily basis from across the country, where the harassed husbands can be heard literally crying and struggling with mental agony. Man Cell’s main motive is to bring to the notice of the government that how women are misusing Section 498-A of the IPC and Domestic Violence Act and how the husbands and their relatives are being implicated and blackmailed in false cases, in India, by their mischievous wives and daughter-in-laws.
Our society is conditioned to believe that a husband can never be harassed by his wife. People still find it uncomfortable to accept that a woman can harass a man. Chugh explains that the list of his clients includes officers from IAS, IPS, judiciary, businessmen and people from corporate sectors, who feel embarrassed because of their social status, as to what the people would say if they come to know that they are being harassed by their wives. Chugh says that there are several organisations working for women but there is hardly any working for men.
Chugh further adds that there are many cases where the wives are sufferers, so the Man Cell only fights genuine cases and first of all it tries to bring both parties together and sort out the problems amicably. There are women, who most of the times file cases under somebody’s influence or are misled by their parents. So every step is taken to convince them to get back on the track and compromise, as going to overburdened courts could be futile. It is not only the couple who suffer, but parents and children too have to suffer along, he adds.
Contact Man Cell:
91-9810170681, 91-9868142608
E-mail : [email protected]
Address: Man Cell, BH-712-A, Shalimar Bagh, Delhi – 110 088
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12/21/2018 08:12:55 pm
I am kavita... My brother who got married in 2013 with a girl from bihar ( Ranjana/ravita bharti D/o Ashok/manoj hajra) .After marry she with our whole family come to chandigarh where we live from our childhood, she was very good till first month. After she start blackmail us to sue all of us in dowry case, sudden his brother came and along with his brother move to her hometown BIHAR by saying that her exams are near. She left our house with his brother with our jwellery and money too without even informing my family. after dat she and her family call my family to bring her from bihar.. Nd when my mom dad gone to bring her for 3 times(bihar) they said every time... Her exam is near please come next month. And this the same case going on for over 2 years n 6 month. My brother also gone to bring her with all rituals nd custums, I but they again deny by saying her exams about to come. In 2016 she (ranjana) with her brother( avinash/vishal paswan) came to chandigarh , about her came back to chandigarh no one in my family know, I even her husband was not aware of her coming. she came our house n move to her room. Her brother n Ranjana live in her room whole tym...she gave their exam n her brother lived here more than 2 week. When his brothwr moved she started querrling with us. She sometimes put fire on her suitcase, lock herself in her room nd starting roraing nd saying this dat all are torture me trying to get kill me to get out attention of neighbour. After dat when her act was unbearable my mom nd dad decided to let her seprate room with her husband. We separated her from our family nd gave her room with her husband to live, but she even after this not able to live hapily all tym querrl n even after living with her husband she called her mom nd brother to chandigarh direct to police station n she also moved from her room to police station n FIR registered against all of dat we harassed her mom dad badly whe they came, her husband torture him she collects all her hair fall (while comb natural hair fall) she was allegly blame on my whole fmliy member n moved with her mom nd brother for bihar by accepting in written at police station, "while my husband will come to bihar on 17 july 2016 i will come with him". But when my brother went there (bihar) to bring her he noted dat she (ranjana) sue my whole family under case of dowry, hrassing, abortion on 12 july 2016. She was all planed to arrest my family. Now we are free of abortion beacause we have proof. N after dat she call to set out all n came with us to chandigarh nd when my brother n dad gone there (bihar) to bring her, I she arrested my brother by police station, without having any fault from us my brother lived in a jail for 6 months. By dat time my father was also there n did his all for removing my brother from jail, now in the depression of dat my father expires, Now she nd her whole family blackmail to kill or harmed who else helping us in case. I we are totally harrases we have all proof but all vain, we hired 2 advocates but case is still going on. My brother to whom her whole family searching to harm or yo put ]n jail or even bihar police is in favour of my brother in laws, I this is all done by bribe. What i do to come out, this case is all clear nd now its been 3 years of case going on us. I what we did we even not able to earn as we r still studied n maintaining our house expenses with home tution classes.
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7/4/2022 12:08:06 pm
Many cases have been reported in different parts of Himachal also, where women have misused the dowry law, which is actually meant for their protection. Thank you, amazing post!
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7/5/2022 01:10:05 pm
Domestic Violence Act and how the husbands and their relatives are being implicated and blackmailed in false cases, Thank you for making this such an awesome post!
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